Attempted Lift Robbery at Curve

     这是 e-mail 里看到的.....
This morning (Sat. 14th June) at 11.15 am my husband and I entered a lift ( Ground Floor, next to Fitness Fit centre) in the Curve. Just before entering this lift  I turned around to see if anyone was following us becasue just earlier we had gone to the nearby bank to withdrew RM4,000/-. There weren't anyone - but after we entered there was a flurry of men running towards the lift where they entered. There were seven of them (Malay-looking). I noticed the level they wanted was B2 whereas ours was B1.
 
Soon the lift stopped at our level and we wanted to come out. I was out of the lift already when I heard my husband shouting angrily at the men 'Bloody fool!' because one guy was blocking his way out. I turned around to find another was kneeling down and tugging at his trousers rather forcefully as though to stop him moving. Suspicious of their actions, I quickly pulled my husband out of the lift by the shoulders.
 
Seeing this they probably realised I was his wife coming to his aid,  and not a stranger who has a 'tidak-apa-' attitude, so they didn't resort to do anything else and they could since that place then was lonely. I mean they could pull out knives to threaten us.
 
Even during my attempt to pull my husband out I noticed his business pouch bag was unzipped and this is unusual as he always zipped his bag. So one guy had unzipped his bag hoping to pickpocket something. This shows that despite my husband clutching his bag under his arms the guy was so professional he could still unzip it.
 
My husband said that in the lift he noticed one guy dropping some  pamphlets on the floor apparently to distract us when we were about to get out of the lift if we checked if the pamphlets belonged to us.
 
Whether due to the gang panicking at the last moment or through sheer providence, we were not harmed or anything taken. But we were quite shaken by this harrowing experience.
 
It seems such a coincidence that there was an attempted robbery after we withdrew some cash or was it just random case for the gang of seven operating in the Curve.
 
We then made a report to the Curve Security management.
 
It would appear the gang's modus operandi is to have a number of them in a lift with a single victim. Obviously if the victim is alone when he/she sees a number of people entering the lift, the would-be victim feels safe in a 'crowd' but this is where it goes wrong. So now they operate as a gang. Because if the would-be victim sees a one or two persons entering a lift the would-be victim would leave being suspicious but with a crowd, no problem!!

So next time you're alone and see a sudden group of guys, just leave...better be safe than sorry.
     不管在 Curve 或其他地方,大家请注意一下啦.....

                            

中国人的十二生肖

             刚刚看了一个很有意识的文章,可能有些生为华裔子弟的我们都不知道为什么十二生肖里的动物是那十二只,而不是其他动物呢?
         如果以后别人问到,我们可以用以下的方式来解答....
        有一次,我有机会和欧洲的贵族聚餐。
        可能酒喝多了,一位德国贵族站了起来,讽刺说:“你们中国人都是属什么猪啊!狗啊!老鼠啊!不像我们,都是金牛座、狮子座、仙女座......真的不知道你们祖先怎么想的....”
       当时这些贵族听完哈哈大笑,还互相碰杯,先前的优雅完全不见了。
         按理说,人家在骂你祖宗了,你即使没有话说,起码可以掀桌子啊!
         但所有人都坐着不吭声,也可能是还回应不过来,我当时只好平和地告诉在场所有外宾:
         “中国人的祖先是很实在的,我们十二生肖两两相对,六道轮回,体现了我们祖先对中国人全部的期望跟要求。”
         这是,现场气氛虽然从嬉闹转为安静,但是他们脸上还是一副不屑的样子。我说:
       “ 第一组是老鼠和牛

             老鼠代表智慧,牛代表勤奋。智慧和勤奋一定要紧紧结合在一起。如果光有智慧不勤奋,那就变成小聪明;而光是勤奋,不动脑筋,那就变成愚蠢。所以这两者一定要结合,这是我们祖先对中国人的第一组期望和要求,也就是最重要的一组。
           第二组是老虎和兔子

            老虎代表勇猛,兔子代表谨慎。勇猛和谨慎一定要紧紧结合在一起,才能做到所谓的胆大心细。如果勇猛离开了谨慎,就变成了鲁莽,而你没有勇猛,一味谨慎,谨慎就变成胆怯。这一组也非常重要,所以放在第二。”
        我看着这些贵族,補上一句:
        “所以当我们表现出谨慎时候,千万不要以为我们中国人没有勇猛的一面。实际上,我们祖先追求的是一种和谐的智慧和圆融,从不会单独给一个要求和任务。”
       看着大家陷入沉思,我继续往下说:
        “第三组是龙和蛇

           龙代表刚猛,蛇代表柔韧。所谓刚者易折,太刚了容易折断,但是如果只有柔韧一面,就容易失去主见,所以刚柔并济是我们历代的祖先训。
           接下来是马和羊

            马代表一往无前,直奔目标;羊代表和顺。如果一个人只顾自己直奔目标,罔顾周遭,必然会和周遭不断磕碰,最后不见得能达到目标。但是一个人如果光顾着和周遭和顺,之后他连方向后没有,目标也失去了。所以一往无前的秉性一定与和顺紧紧结合在一起,这是我们祖先对中国人的第四组期望。
             再接下来是猴子和鸡
             猴子代表灵活,至于鸡呢,以前的年代没有钟,都是听鸡鸣决定一天的开始,所以鸡定时打鸣,代表恒定。灵活和恒定一定要紧紧结合起来,如果光灵活,没有恒定,再好的政策最后也得不到斩获。但如果说你光是恒定,一潭死水、一块铁板,那就不会有我们今天的政策开放了,只有它们之间非常圆融的结合,一方面具有稳定性,保持整体的和谐和秩序,另一方面又能不断变通地前进,这才是最根本的要旨。
             最后是狗和猪

             狗代表忠诚,猪是代表随和。一个人如果太忠诚,不懂得随和,就会排斥他人。而反过来,一个人太随和,没有忠诚,这个人就失去原则。所以无论是对一个民族国家忠诚、对团队的忠诚,还是自己理想的忠诚,一定要与随和紧紧结合在一起,这样才容易真正保持内心深处的忠诚。这就是我们中国人一直坚持的外圆内方,君子和而不同。
            中国人每个人都有属于自己的生肖,有的人属猪,有的人属狗,这意义在何?
            实际上我们的祖先期望我们要圆融,不能偏颇,要求我们懂得到对方应面切入。比如属猪的人能够在他们随和本性中,也去追求忠诚;而属狗的人则在忠诚的本性中,去做到随和。”
        解释完十二生肖,我说:
        “不知道你们那些水瓶座啊、射手座啊...体现了你们祖先哪些期望和要求?也希望不吝赐教。”
        结果呢,这些贵族老爷们很长时间都没说话,全场鸦雀无声,一根针掉在地上都能听见。
       最后贵族们纷纷由衷地表示对中国人和中国人的祖先非常敬佩:
        “没想到中国的十二生肖有这么深刻而实在的意义。”